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		<title>Blame &#8211; I. An Overview</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2007 02:21:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roland</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I can still remember my young children reaction when something disturbed or scared them.  They would look at me seeking reassurance.  There was also something else, a look of reproach.  It was like, &#8220;how did you allow something like that to happen?&#8221;  Of course, at the time, I was an all-powerful parent capable of anything.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can still remember my young children reaction when something disturbed or scared them.  They would look at me seeking reassurance.  There was also something else, a look of reproach.  It was like, &#8220;how did you allow something like that to happen?&#8221;  Of course, at the time, I was an all-powerful parent capable of anything.  They would later learn that there were many things over which I had no control.  They were also too young to really blame.  But their reaction I believe was the first step towards learning to blame.</p>
<p><span id="more-66"></span></p>
<p>The time came when they became adolescents; my wife and I fell from our pedestal with a thud!  To their credit, there wasn&#8217;t much blame during those years.  We remained a loving and tight-knit family.  They would freely talk with us about their friends.  From them I learned that other teens could be a handful.  Thanks to them I discarded the idyllic picture of my own teen years, back in Egypt, back in the 1950s.  This was a different time and a very different place.  Most important I learned from them that a blaming game took place in numerous other families.  &#8220;I am not accepted by my friends because you&#8217;re not buying me the proper clothing.&#8221;  &#8220;My boyfriend broke up with me because you didn&#8217;t make him feel welcome when he came to visit.&#8221;  Never mind that the boyfriend in question looked like an escaped convict!</p>
<p>Now to a basic question:  Are we wired for blame, is it learned behavior, or is it both?  I believe it is both.  My arguments follow.</p>
<p>With many unfortunate exceptions, our childhood is the best time of our lives.  Two adults, our parents, are in charge.  They take care of everything.  They earn a living; pay the bills; plan and prepare the meals; and best of all, at a young age, entertain us, play with us, and simply love us.  When was the last time you saw a 7-year-old shopping for a better mortgage, or planning a vacation?!</p>
<p>For the rest of our lives we will seek that sheltered environment.  But, alas, it is gone for good.  Nevertheless, we continue to assume that other parties are responsible for our welfare.  We are right to a certain extent.  For example, when a dangerous disease (example the birdflu) affect other nations, we expect our government to plan properly in case it reaches our shores.  If we are in a crisis, we expect our parents, siblings, and friends to help out.  Any of these parties can be blamed if they do not deliver.  These are cases when blame is a healthy reaction provided we learn to blame and move on.<br />
 <br />
The above is the nurture part of the equation.  What about the nature part?  A child is completely pliant and is willing to accept authority.  This is absolutely necessary, for the parents can be goat-herders on the plains of Africa, or two Cambridge professors.  No matter, the child will adapt, but the parents have an important role to play.  In the first instance, the child should be taught what to do if attacked by a dangerous animal.  He should also be provided with the proper weapons and reliable dogs.  In the second instance, the child should be prepared for the complex intellectual world awaiting him.  Perhaps a more onerous task than the one the first parents have.</p>
<p>If the parents discharge their responsibilities properly, all is well.  If not, and if harm results, the child will blame his parents.  If the situation persists, he will gradually lose his trust in them and indeed in all adults.  Together with the power to adapt and accept authority, nature has equipped us with the power to react when expectations are not met.  We begin by blaming and in time we may realize we have placed our safety and welfare in the wrong hands.  We are no longer willing to accept authority blindly.  In other words, blame is a defense mechanism.  It should be triggered for a good reason.  Unfortunately, as I will discuss in my subsequent sections, it doesn&#8217;t work this way at all.</p>
 <div class='series_toc'><h3>Article Series - Blame</h3><ol><li>Blame &#8211; I. An Overview</li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ii-the-justice-system/' title='Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System'>Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iii-accountability/' title='Blame &#8211; III. Accountability'>Blame &#8211; III. Accountability</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iv-malicious-ambition/' title='Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition'>Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vi-the-jewish-people/' title='Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People'>Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vii-parents/' title='Blame &#8211; VII. Parents'>Blame &#8211; VII. Parents</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-viii-governments/' title='Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments'>Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ix-god/' title='Blame &#8211; IX. God'>Blame &#8211; IX. God</a></li></ol></div> <div class='series_links'> <a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ii-the-justice-system/' title='Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System'>Next in series</a></div>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2007 23:42:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roland</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The criminal justice system exists to punish people who have committed a crime.  It also serves three (or perhaps more) other purposes:  deterrence, locking criminals to protect the public, and rehabilitation.  To these objectives may I be permitted to add one more:  blame. When a heinous crime is committed in a community, there is an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The criminal justice system exists to punish people who have<br />
committed a crime.  It also serves three (or perhaps more) other<br />
purposes:  deterrence, locking criminals to protect the public,<br />
and rehabilitation.  To these objectives may I be permitted to<br />
add one more:  blame.</p>
<p>When a heinous crime is committed in a community, there is<br />
an expectation that the perpetrator will be found quickly and<br />
made to pay for his crime.  But the police rarely arrives at the<br />
scene of a crime and find a person with a smoking gun standing<br />
over a body.  It takes time to solve a crime.  The prosecutor<br />
needs solid evidence before she can go to trial.  Sometimes a<br />
crime is never solved.  But people need justice done, or put in a<br />
more candid way they need to blame.  Under these conditions, the<br />
system (police, prosecutors, and legislators) looks for a<br />
shortcut.  I am aware of two ways to do so.</p>
<p><span id="more-67"></span></p>
<p>If a disturbing crime is committed by a minor, i.e. a child,<br />
by common agreement, we can decide to play a game of pretend.  We<br />
can pretend he is an adult and punish him accordingly.  What that<br />
means is that he will be tried as an adult, receive a long<br />
sentence, and perhaps be jailed with adult criminals.</p>
<p>Neurobiologists tell us that in adolescence, the brain is<br />
still developing.  Many connections are still being made in the<br />
brain.  It&#8217;s a carryover from childhood, but the work is going on<br />
in a big way.  Remember the body is exploding and that includes<br />
the brain.  One is tempted to write on the forehead of every<br />
adolescent:  &#8220;Brain Under Construction!&#8221;  An adolescent doesn&#8217;t<br />
think like an adult, he is still a child.  However, when the<br />
process is completed, he will have a fully developed cerebral<br />
cortex with the proper controls, the ability to exercise sound<br />
judgment, and the capacity to evaluate the consequences of his<br />
actions.We understand all that of course, but sometimes we look the<br />
other way.  Perhaps the system have no choice.  The lynching mob<br />
is out there.  Ignoring it may impact our career or cost us the<br />
next election.  So what do we do?  We jail a child!  We<br />
substitute one crime for another and in the process satisfy our<br />
appetite for blame.</p>
<p>This in an advanced society!  This in the 21st century!</p>
<p>The other shortcut involve an adult suspect.  Again we are<br />
faced with a revolting act.  People are aghast.  How can anybody<br />
commit such a crime?  Payment has to be exacted.  Blame should be<br />
allocated.  The players involved have to, by hook or crook, find<br />
the perpetrator.  But they cannot.  There is a silent question<br />
out there.  Does it have to be a perfect fit?  Perhaps a neighbor<br />
has committed the crime.  More commonly it&#8217;s a person that has a<br />
criminal record; it could be for petty crimes committed a long<br />
time ago.  No matter, a case can be made; it need not be a<br />
perfect fit!</p>
<p>I want to provide you with an actual example.  My problem<br />
is that, sadly, I have many cases to choose from.  Ultimately, I<br />
picked the case of Guy Paul Morin since it profoundly disturbs my<br />
sense of justice.</p>
<p>On October 3, 1984, in Queensville Ontario, the parents of<br />
9-year-old, Christine Jessop, arrived home and found the backpack<br />
of their daughter on the kitchen counter.  The mail and flyers<br />
had been brought into the house; in other words, Christine had<br />
arrived home safely, however, there was no sign of her. </p>
<p>A search was undertaken, but Christine was never found.<br />
Christine&#8217;s body was eventually found on December 31, 1984.</p>
<p>The Morins were the next door neighbor.  Guy Paul Morin was<br />
a suspect early in the investigation; this despite the fact that<br />
there was never any solid evidence against him.  Essentially, it<br />
was found that his behavior was suspicious.</p>
<p>Guy was 23 at the time.  He worked for a furniture<br />
manufacturer, lived with his parents, and played the clarinet and<br />
the saxophone.  He was generally happy and looked forward to a<br />
bright future.  Alas, it was not to be.    </p>
<p>Guy was arrested and charged on April 22, 1985.  On January<br />
7, 1986, he was acquitted.  The Crown appealed (there is no<br />
double jeopardy rule in Canada), and on his retrial, on July 23,<br />
1992, he was found guilty.</p>
<p>Throughout this whole process, Morin maintained his<br />
innocence.  Indeed, many believed he was innocent.  Unlike others<br />
convicted of murdering children after sexually abusing them,<br />
during his incarceration, he was kept in the general prison<br />
population without being a victim of violence.</p>
<p>Improvements in DNA testing led to a test in 1995 which<br />
excluded Morin as the murderer.  A hell that has lasted for 11<br />
years had finally come to an end.</p>
<p>A subsequent inquiry revealed that there was evidence of<br />
police and prosecutorial misconduct, and of misrepresentation of<br />
forensic evidence by the Ontario Centre of Forensic Sciences.</p>
 <div class='series_toc'><h3>Article Series - Blame</h3><ol><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-i-an-overview/' title='Blame &#8211; I. An Overview'>Blame &#8211; I. An Overview</a></li><li>Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System</li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iii-accountability/' title='Blame &#8211; III. Accountability'>Blame &#8211; III. Accountability</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iv-malicious-ambition/' title='Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition'>Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vi-the-jewish-people/' title='Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People'>Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vii-parents/' title='Blame &#8211; VII. Parents'>Blame &#8211; VII. Parents</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-viii-governments/' title='Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments'>Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ix-god/' title='Blame &#8211; IX. God'>Blame &#8211; IX. God</a></li></ol></div> <div class='series_links'><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-i-an-overview/' title='Blame &#8211; I. An Overview'>Previous in series</a> <a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iii-accountability/' title='Blame &#8211; III. Accountability'>Next in series</a></div>]]></content:encoded>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Dec 2007 19:58:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roland</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Accountability is used in so many different situations, it is no longer easy to define.  It is bandied around freely in the bureaucracy, in politics, and in the media.  So how do we pin it down?  I gather from my dictionary that it is simply a matter of determining who is responsible, or who should [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Accountability is used in so many different situations, it<br />
is no longer easy to define.  It is bandied around freely in the<br />
bureaucracy, in politics, and in the media.  So how do we pin it<br />
down?  I gather from my dictionary that it is simply a matter of<br />
determining who is responsible, or who should be held<br />
responsible, for a given action, event, or development.  For<br />
example the loss of confidential documents.  I will accept this<br />
quasi-definition and proceed from there.</p>
<p><span id="more-68"></span></p>
<p>The matter becomes more involved when I bring blame into the<br />
picture.  An individual can be held responsible, but may or may<br />
not be blamed for her actions.  How so?  Let&#8217;s look at an<br />
example.  Tamara (a fictitious person) starts a technology<br />
company in 1996.  In 1998, she goes public and the price of her<br />
shares is climbing steadily.  Investors do well until 2000 when<br />
the technology sector goes down the drain.  As a result, the<br />
company goes out of business and the investors lose substantial<br />
amounts of money.  When the books of the company are audited, it<br />
turns out that Tamara has always been honest in her business<br />
dealings.  There was no revenue pulled out of nowhere.  This is a<br />
case where Tamara can be held accountable (since she managed the<br />
business) for the losses incurred but cannot be blamed.  She<br />
could not control what happened and she never inflated her<br />
revenue artificially to jack-up the shares&#8217; price.</p>
<p>Compare and contrast the above fictional example with<br />
existing companies who engaged in doubtful accounting practices,<br />
and in the process ruined the lives of many of their employees<br />
and shareholders.  Not only do we blame the managers who run<br />
these companies, but we consider their actions criminal.  Indeed,<br />
some of them are now in jail.</p>
<p>Often, it is not that simple to separate accountability from<br />
blame.  They tend to go together.</p>
<p>Some 60 years ago, President Harry Truman took the most<br />
difficult decision a president has taken before or since.  He<br />
dropped the atom bomb on two cities in Japan.  President Truman<br />
had a sign on his desk:  &#8220;The Buck Stops Here.&#8221;  In other words,<br />
the final decision was his to make.  But he was certainly not<br />
alone.  Rest assured that he consulted with his cabinet, members<br />
of Congress, staff, military men, and above all the scientists<br />
who developed this frightful weapon.  Japan was told what to<br />
expect and was given a chance to sign a peace accord.  The offer<br />
was reiterated before the second bomb was dropped on Nagasaki; to<br />
no avail.</p>
<p>Today the U.S. and Japan are good friends, and standing at a<br />
distance of 60 years, we can ask our questions:  Was President<br />
Truman accountable (responsible) for this horror?  Could he be<br />
blamed?  I will say with absolute certainty that he was neither<br />
accountable nor could he be blamed.  The war in the Pacific was<br />
costing many lives, both American and Japanese.  The world was<br />
exhausted after a long war; and the U.S. had a weapon that could<br />
end the conflict.  It should have never come to that.  The<br />
military in Japan should have understood that the game was up.<br />
When they didn&#8217;t, the Americans had no other choice left.  The<br />
decision was a common decision taken not by one man only, but<br />
many other people both in the U.S. and Japan.</p>
<p>Only God can say:  &#8220;The Buck Stops Here.&#8221;  Humans can use it<br />
if they wish.  But it is meaningless.  So many things are not<br />
under their control.</p>
<p>In the early &#8217;70s, the U.S. was rocked by the Watergate<br />
scandal.  Put simply, President Richard Nixon and many members of<br />
his staff has engineered a plot to ensure he will be reelected<br />
for a second term.  For some 3 years, government, Congress, the<br />
media, and the judiciary were busy sorting out this sordid<br />
affair.  When the President resigned and was replaced by<br />
President Ford, it was time to take a tally.  Many brilliant<br />
people around Nixon were jailed.  The business of government came<br />
to a standstill.  President Nixon was pardoned by President Ford,<br />
probably more out of respect for the institution of the<br />
presidency than for the man himself.  For many years thereafter,<br />
the stench of the scandal pervaded Washington.</p>
<p>President Nixon earned the nickname of &#8220;Tricky Dick.&#8221;  For<br />
example, he used to say that he was serving the silent majority.<br />
He was serving the majority of Americans who went about their<br />
business quietly.  Any protest therefore was the work of<br />
hooligans, not hard-working people.  How convenient!  Since they<br />
were silent, Nixon&#8217;s administration could make them say what they<br />
want.  Since they were silent, we don&#8217;t know their numbers and<br />
they can be misrepresented as the majority.  Put another way, he<br />
equated the American people to puppets.  What they say or do is<br />
under the control of the puppeteer.  But it didn&#8217;t work this way<br />
at all, the American people caught up with him and his career<br />
ended up in disgrace.</p>
<p>I think we have an easy verdict here.  Nixon was accountable<br />
because it was proved that from the beginning he knew what was<br />
going on.  He was to blame for the pain he has caused,<br />
specifically to the people around him, and in general to the<br />
American people.</p>
 <div class='series_toc'><h3>Article Series - Blame</h3><ol><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-i-an-overview/' title='Blame &#8211; I. An Overview'>Blame &#8211; I. An Overview</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ii-the-justice-system/' title='Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System'>Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System</a></li><li>Blame &#8211; III. Accountability</li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iv-malicious-ambition/' title='Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition'>Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vi-the-jewish-people/' title='Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People'>Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vii-parents/' title='Blame &#8211; VII. Parents'>Blame &#8211; VII. Parents</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-viii-governments/' title='Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments'>Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ix-god/' title='Blame &#8211; IX. God'>Blame &#8211; IX. God</a></li></ol></div> <div class='series_links'><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ii-the-justice-system/' title='Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System'>Previous in series</a> <a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iv-malicious-ambition/' title='Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition'>Next in series</a></div>]]></content:encoded>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jan 2008 22:24:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roland</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ambition is a positive force of nature.  It&#8217;s a strong drive that urges us to always go forward, always do better.  Not all people are ambitious.  Some totally lack ambition and are quite happy to live and let live.  At the other extreme, there are people who are driven to reach a goal.  They will [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ambition is a positive force of nature.  It&#8217;s a strong drive that urges us to always go forward, always do better.  Not all people are ambitious.  Some totally lack ambition and are quite happy to live and let live.  At the other extreme, there are people who are driven to reach a goal.  They will trample over anybody that gets in their way, and, if they have the necessary ability, they will get there.  But in the process they sacrifice family, friends, and plain human decency.  But what if they<br />
 do not have the talent to say reach the high position they are aiming at in their company?</p>
<p><span id="more-69"></span>That&#8217;s when it gets really ugly.  I have met some (mercifully, not many) of these predators in the course of my working life.  At least one of them was downright incompetent and could not discharge his present duties, let alone occupy a higher position.  But he did reach his goal!  How does such a person do it?  He uses what I call malicious ambition.  He creates dissension between superiors, subordinates, and everybody  in between.  He uses blame very intelligently blaming other<br />
people for his own errors.  The blame does not stop there; when<br />
the opportunity presents itself, he plays one colleague against<br />
the other.  He tells Peter &#8220;you&#8217;re in this predicament because of<br />
Paul.  However, Paul is getting better at what he is doing.  All<br />
in all he is a good chap.&#8221;  It&#8217;s a bad cop, good cop tactic<br />
except that he plays both roles.</p>
<p>There has always been people who have been endowed with this<br />
low trait.  Not a gift from nature, but rather a curse.</p>
<p>Malicious ambition in our modern democracies is routinely<br />
used.  A government in power will blame its predecessors for the<br />
problems the nation is encountering.  But not to worry, we will<br />
save the day.  Even better, if you elect us again, we will work<br />
hard and our country will be the envy of the whole world.<br />
Another scenario:  our province is in its present predicament<br />
because the federal government is not giving us our fair share of<br />
taxation.</p>
<p>You get the idea; one party blames the other, the province<br />
blames the federal government, and the municipality blames the<br />
federal and provincial governments.  It&#8217;s a blaming game.  The<br />
game of politics.  It&#8217;s a form of malicious ambition that, while<br />
not benign, is accepted until we find a better way to govern<br />
ourselves.</p>
 <div class='series_toc'><h3>Article Series - Blame</h3><ol><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-i-an-overview/' title='Blame &#8211; I. An Overview'>Blame &#8211; I. An Overview</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ii-the-justice-system/' title='Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System'>Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iii-accountability/' title='Blame &#8211; III. Accountability'>Blame &#8211; III. Accountability</a></li><li>Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition</li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vi-the-jewish-people/' title='Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People'>Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vii-parents/' title='Blame &#8211; VII. Parents'>Blame &#8211; VII. Parents</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-viii-governments/' title='Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments'>Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ix-god/' title='Blame &#8211; IX. God'>Blame &#8211; IX. God</a></li></ol></div> <div class='series_links'><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iii-accountability/' title='Blame &#8211; III. Accountability'>Previous in series</a> <a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vi-the-jewish-people/' title='Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People'>Next in series</a></div>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blame &#8211; V. Destructive Blame</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2008 21:51:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roland</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a very specific type of blame in mind.  The kind that exists within a family.  (I&#8217;ll also address this type of blame within society in general).  A blame which, if not stopped, can, like acid, eat into the structure of the family until it collapses.  There are many examples.  Let me give you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a very specific type of blame in mind.  The kind that exists within a family.  (I&#8217;ll also address this type of blame within society in general).  A blame which, if not stopped, can, like acid, eat into the structure of the family until it collapses.  There are many examples.  Let me give you two.</p>
<p> The Jones live on a quiet street.  Their 6-year-old boy, Jonah, often goes bicycling near the house.  The parents keep an eye on him and there have never been any incidents.  On that unfortunate day, a car goes down the street just as Jonah is turning a corner.  The parents hear the terrifying sound of a collision and the squeal of brakes.  Jonah is killed instantly. What happens in this case is fairly typical.  The parents will be devastated.  They will grieve for a long time; really forever for you never get over the death of a child.  Then a process that shouldn&#8217;t be part of human nature, but unfortunately is, begins. They begin blaming each other:  &#8220;Had we gone to visit my parents like we planned&#8230;&#8221;  &#8220;If you didn&#8217;t teach Jonah to be so daring, really reckless&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p><span id="more-70"></span> None of them is really responsible for what happened. Nothing will ever bring their little boy back.  Blame, if it continues, will wreck their marriage.  Yet, this is the time to come together, not to split!</p>
<p> Emily gets pregnant at 19.  Her boyfriend, Amos, is willing to assume responsibility.  He marries her a year after the baby is born.  A marriage at such a young age will not survive?  Not necessarily.  If they love each other, and if they get the necessary support from their parents, it can thrive.  There is a major advantage here.  They are so very young and are capable of doing things they will no longer be able to do even 10 years from now.  Never again will they have an inexhaustible store of energy like now.  Never again will passion bring them together so powerfully.  They have an edge over a couple that, say, married in their thirties.  So what can possibly break such a strong bond?  Blame.</p>
<p> Amos:  &#8220;I was going to study to be a meteorologist.  Look at me now, I am spoonfeeding the little brat and changing his diapers.&#8221;</p>
<p> Emily:  &#8220;When you got me pregnant, I was in my first year of college studying to be a chef.  I love cooking.  But for all of last year I cooked for a man who considers hamburger, pizza, and fried chicken as gourmet food.  What a waste of my talent.</p>
<p>&#8221; &#8220;I got you pregnant?  Wasn&#8217;t it&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p> &#8221;It didn&#8217;t happen by itself you know, and&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>On and on the blame goes on.  Slowly but surely they are destroying their marriage.  It need not be this way.  Today, there is a lot of support in our society.  If they really want, they can conceivably complete their studies and achieve their dreams.  But first they have to be positive and work together. Blame can be defined in this case as two people working against each other.</p>
<p> Destructive blame exists in society as a whole.  Divorce, the right to die, gay marriage, abortion, and countless other contentious issues pit one segment of society against the other. The media whips the crowd into a frenzy.  It spurs us into meddling into other people&#8217;s business.</p>
<p> The media when I was growing up was a 10 to 15 pages newspaper that occasionally offered commentaries, some of them provocative.  Today it is the radio, television with 24-hours news channels, newspapers, and of course the internet.  Let&#8217;s not forget the call-in shows where every Joe and Jill offer their views.  Everybody is a pop psychologist; we all know what our politicians ought to do.</p>
<p> In an advanced society, we don&#8217;t meddle into the business of a family who has to decide whether to pull the plug on a very sick relative.  We don&#8217;t tell a woman we don&#8217;t even know to keep her baby.  In an advanced society we &#8230;  Well, never mind.  We are not an advanced society.  We still enjoy meddling into other people business and blaming them for a situation we are not even acquainted with!</p>
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		<title>Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jan 2008 21:44:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roland</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It would be unthinkable to write an article on blame and leave the Jewish people out.  After all, they have been the scapegoat of this planet for millennia.  All kind of reasons have been advanced to explain this tragic situation.  They never allowed themselves to be absorbed.  Wherever they were, they were always a minority.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It would be unthinkable to write an article on blame and leave the Jewish people out.  After all, they have been the scapegoat of this planet for millennia.  All kind of reasons have been advanced to explain this tragic situation.  They never allowed themselves to be absorbed.  Wherever they were, they were always a minority.  People in the past were ignorant and very superstitious.  Fine, but what about the present time?  Why does antisemitism exists even in this advanced age?</p>
<p><span id="more-71"></span></p>
<p>The Jewish people should be celebrated, not persecuted. There are three main reasons:</p>
<p>1. They brought monotheism to this planet.  This, at the time, was an extraordinary achievement.  When Moses brought the Israelites out of Egypt, people worshipped idols.  There were gods for everything.  Gods for the rain, trees, river, sun, moon, fertility, and war.  You name it, there was a god for it.  Every house had stone and clay idols.  The people could see them, touch them, talk to them, and solicit their help.  The Torah enjoined the Jews to worship one God only.  They could not fashion any image of Him.  Moreover, their God was invisible.  This was asking for the impossible.  The bible informs us that the people often worshipped false gods.  Yet, with the help of the prophets who at times cajoled, at times threatened, the true God prevailed among the Israelites.  And from Judaism first Christianity and then Islam sprung.</p>
<p>When Divinity walked the earth, there was only one people amongst whom He could be born:  The Jewish people.  It would have been unthinkable to have Jesus born among the heathen!</p>
<p>2. Of all the people of antiquity, only the Jews come to us in one unbroken line as a people.  Where are the Babylonians and the Assyrians?  Are today Greeks and Egyptians the same people that existed thousand of years ago?  To a point only; for they have mixed with so many other nations over the centuries.  The modern Jews (as a people and as a religion) are the descendants of the Jews  (with one important qualification discussed below) that traversed the Sinai desert and settled in the promised land.</p>
<p>In 722 BCE the Assyrians conquered the Northern Kingdom of Israel, destroyed its capital Samaria, and deported the Israelites.  The conquered kingdom included what we call today the Ten Lost Tribes (Reuven, Simeon, Issachar, Zebulun, Dan, Naphtali, Gad, Asher, Ephraim, and Manasseh).  Today, we look in vain for these lost  tribes.  I believe they have long been absorbed by other people.</p>
<p>Judah, the Southern Kingdom had Jerusalem as its capital.  It was populated by the tribes of Judah, Benjamin, and Levi (This tribe was assigned hereditary religious duties).  All modern  Jews are their descendants.</p>
<p>Why is that important?  I don&#8217;t know about you, but I find it reassuring to have a people from antiquity still dwelling among us.  After all, there is so little stability on this confused planet.   </p>
<p>3. The Jews do not proselytize.  I am not aware of all the reasons for that, but I believe the three most important ones are:</p>
<p>A. As already stated, Judaism came about at a time when people worshipped idols.  To tell your neighbors to convert to a religion with one God, and an invisible one at that, would have been not only futile, but dangerous since it would have antagonized them.</p>
<p>B. Judaism is an incredibly complex religion.  There are 613 commandments in the bible.  The commandments are further explained and expanded in the Talmud; all of its volumes can fill a large shelve on your bookcase.  If you&#8217;re born a Jew, you do the best you can.  Even an Orthodox Jew cannot follow everything, more so since he has to adjust the commandments to the requirements of time and place by using the Oral Torah (tradition).  I do not profess to fully understand this last statement.  I included it to give you an idea why Judaism does not ask you to join its ranks.</p>
<p>C. The third reason is the most important one.  The Talmud refers to the Righteous Jew.  He/she believes in God, is fair and kind to fellow humans, and follow the commandments to the best of his/her ability.  The Talmud also refers to the Righteous Gentile.  He/she is equivalent to a Righteous Jew.  Both will have a share in the world to come.  You get no special privileges in God&#8217;s eyes just because you&#8217;re a Jew!</p>
<ol>By the way, the Talmud does not accept (as is) the bible&#8217;s statement that the Jews were the chosen (by God) people.  The interpretation (looking through the whole Torah, and with the help of the Oral Torah) is that the choosing was the other way around; the Jews chose God and his Torah.</p>
<p>Considering the above, a Gentile who wants to convert to Judaism is not encouraged.  If she persists, she is, of course, given the necessary instruction in the religion and eventually welcomed into the faith.</p>
<p>In all the years, I have only known one person, a Scottish lady, who converted strictly out of conviction (i.e. not because of marriage, etc.).  She approached the Reform Congregation in Ottawa, learned about the religion and was received into Judaism.</ol>
 <div class='series_toc'><h3>Article Series - Blame</h3><ol><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-i-an-overview/' title='Blame &#8211; I. An Overview'>Blame &#8211; I. An Overview</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ii-the-justice-system/' title='Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System'>Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iii-accountability/' title='Blame &#8211; III. Accountability'>Blame &#8211; III. Accountability</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iv-malicious-ambition/' title='Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition'>Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition</a></li><li>Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People</li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vii-parents/' title='Blame &#8211; VII. Parents'>Blame &#8211; VII. Parents</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-viii-governments/' title='Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments'>Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ix-god/' title='Blame &#8211; IX. God'>Blame &#8211; IX. God</a></li></ol></div> <div class='series_links'><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iv-malicious-ambition/' title='Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition'>Previous in series</a> <a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vii-parents/' title='Blame &#8211; VII. Parents'>Next in series</a></div>]]></content:encoded>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2008 21:49:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roland</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We say that there are two certainties in life;  Death and Taxes.  May I be allowed to add a third:  A human life will also include many difficulties.  It is never easy to be human.  At one time or another we will have health, financial, work-related, relationship, emotional, and many other problems.  It is perhaps [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We say that there are two certainties in life;  Death and<br />
Taxes.  May I be allowed to add a third:  A human life will also<br />
include many difficulties.  It is never easy to be human.  At one<br />
time or another we will have health, financial, work-related,<br />
relationship, emotional, and many other problems.  It is perhaps<br />
normal to blame when we are in pain.  The idea in this part, and<br />
the following two parts, is to put the blame in perspective.  Let<br />
us start with our parents.</p>
<p>Our parents gave us life.  They are at our side from<br />
helplessness to adulthood and beyond.  My children are adults now<br />
with their own families.  However, if you were to ask me how I<br />
did it, I would be stumped.  Of course I was younger and very<br />
motivated.  The task was shared with my wife.  It was a day-to-<br />
day affair; every day I learned something new.  I have no doubt<br />
that nature has also equipped me for this awesome task.<br />
Nevertheless, a human infant is such a complex being, I still<br />
wonder how I managed it.</p>
<p><span id="more-72"></span></p>
<p>Some parents have a natural talent for parenting.  Many<br />
others do not.  And still others are negligent, indifferent, or<br />
reckless.  For a child, luck will play a big role.  Whatever the<br />
case, none of us ever get a royal flush when it comes to<br />
parents.  Parents will come with their own personalities, quirks,<br />
and beliefs.  They can only give what they have.  If they both<br />
have a very limited education, they cannot establish an<br />
intellectual atmosphere in the house!</p>
<p>Ultimately, there can be no doubt that parents will have a<br />
significant influence on their children.  There will always be<br />
room for blame.  The idea is to put the blame in perspective by<br />
taking into account the aforementioned limitations under which<br />
parents labor, and the fact that we often tend to exaggerate the<br />
impact they have on us.  Sometimes what appears to be negative<br />
turns out to be positive.  I have an excellent personal example.</p>
<p>Norma and I are low-energy people.  We run out of steam<br />
quickly.  Accordingly, we enlisted the help of our children as<br />
soon as it was humanly possible to do so.  Even at a very young<br />
age, they helped us in small ways such as folding the laundry and<br />
putting the groceries away.  By 6, Rita was making both her and<br />
her brother school lunches (we still hear about it!).  Later they<br />
helped in cleaning the house and doing the laundry.  I paid for<br />
services rendered and avoided a big outcry.  For health reasons,<br />
Norma could not work.  With one income coming into the household,<br />
I told my children that they were on their own if they wanted to<br />
go to university.  I would, however, provide them with free room<br />
and board for as long as they needed it.  They both went to<br />
university and obtained their degrees; and they didn&#8217;t take me up<br />
on my offer of free room and board.</p>
<p>Much later on, when I thought about these particular aspects<br />
of their upbringing, I realized that we gave them the invaluable<br />
gift of initiative.  We didn&#8217;t do it on purpose, it just happened<br />
naturally.  And this is the kind of lesson that stays with the<br />
child as if it was carved in stone.  The daily sermons on the<br />
other hand tend to have a limited impact; some will survive<br />
adulthood, most won&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Rita moved out in 1989 at the age of 21.  She worked,<br />
studied, and subsisted on an impossible budget.  If she ever<br />
writes a small pamphlet as to how she made ends meet, it would be<br />
a must-read for every Minister of Finance in the world!</p>
<p>Michael loves sports.  Unfortunately for him, his parents<br />
did not share his interest.  Yet, with the help of his friends,<br />
he learned how to ride a bicycle, skate, ski, play hockey,<br />
racquetball, and golf. </p>
<p>Sometimes what appears to be negative turns out to be very<br />
positive indeed.</p>
 <div class='series_toc'><h3>Article Series - Blame</h3><ol><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-i-an-overview/' title='Blame &#8211; I. An Overview'>Blame &#8211; I. An Overview</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ii-the-justice-system/' title='Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System'>Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iii-accountability/' title='Blame &#8211; III. Accountability'>Blame &#8211; III. Accountability</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iv-malicious-ambition/' title='Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition'>Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vi-the-jewish-people/' title='Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People'>Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People</a></li><li>Blame &#8211; VII. Parents</li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-viii-governments/' title='Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments'>Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ix-god/' title='Blame &#8211; IX. God'>Blame &#8211; IX. God</a></li></ol></div> <div class='series_links'><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vi-the-jewish-people/' title='Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People'>Previous in series</a> <a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-viii-governments/' title='Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments'>Next in series</a></div>]]></content:encoded>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2008 01:02:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roland</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you have nothing better to do, go to the library and grab a copy of the Federal Government Estimates.  There are three parts, go to part II and there you will find the activities and budgets of all departments and the programs they deliver.  You&#8217;ll be amazed as to what the Federal Government does.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you have nothing better to do, go to the library and grab<br />
a copy of the Federal Government Estimates.  There are three<br />
parts, go to part II and there you will find the activities and<br />
budgets of all departments and the programs they deliver.  You&#8217;ll<br />
be amazed as to what the Federal Government does.  It is involved<br />
in Agriculture, Mine and Resources, Environment, Taxation, Indian<br />
Affairs, Fisheries and Oceans, Human Resources, Justice, Foreign<br />
Affairs, National Defense, and many, many other activities.  In<br />
Part III, you will find a wealth of details on all government<br />
programs.  Ditto for the provinces.  The municipalities have<br />
their own budget document.  If you live in the U.S. (or any other<br />
democratic country) you have equivalent documents.  Simply put,<br />
the governments (there is more than one level) and what they do<br />
is what makes democratic Western nations such great places to<br />
live in.  I am not saying that we should pay our taxes with a<br />
song in our hearts!  Nor am I suggesting that a government is a<br />
perfect institution.  It is run by humans and, accordingly, it<br />
has flaws.  The door is therefore open for blame.</p>
<p><span id="more-73"></span></p>
<p>I have a theory.  You&#8217;re free to accept it or reject it.<br />
During our early years, our parents hold our hand and guide us<br />
through life.  Once their task is finished, we still very much<br />
need the handholding and the government replaces our parents.  If<br />
you&#8217;re facing an intractable problem, you open your telephone<br />
book, or go to the internet, to see what government department<br />
can help you and how.</p>
<p>Simply put, the nation is run by our elected representatives<br />
and by cabinet.  They carry out our wishes and fulfill the<br />
promises made during the election.  (I know it sounds like a<br />
bedtime story you would read to a 3-year-old!  But in a very<br />
general way, and with many qualifications, it does work this<br />
way).  The Civil Service administrate the country.  Put another<br />
way, it carries out the wishes of its political masters and it<br />
directly serves the public.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ve heard the expression, &#8220;You&#8217;re too good for your own<br />
good.&#8221;  Being really good at what you&#8217;re doing means raises and<br />
promotions if you&#8217;re employed.  If you&#8217;re self-employed, it means<br />
more business.  One way or another, it means higher earnings, but<br />
it comes at a price, people expect too much from you.  The same<br />
applies to Western governments.  After centuries of trial and<br />
error, we have good and responsive governments.  In order not to<br />
be accused of living on another planet, I will quickly state that<br />
it&#8217;s far from being perfect.  There is too much red-tape.  Simple<br />
matters are presented are presented as complex, complex issues<br />
are presented as insoluble.  On the one hand, we are nickel-and-<br />
dimed to death, on the other hand our taxes can be spent<br />
recklessly.  There is corruption, scandal, kickbacks, and<br />
nepotism.  Above all the lust for power and the tactics used to<br />
win elections can be depressing; who can forget the 2000<br />
presidential elections?  To reinforce what I just said let me<br />
provide two examples.</p>
<p>In the mid-&#8217;90s we had in Ontario a government that cut all<br />
expenses to the bone.  This created many problems.  One of the<br />
worse was the Walkerton tragedy.  Like many other places, the<br />
monitoring and inspection to ensure the water was potable was cut<br />
back.  In 2000, the residents of Walkerton got very sick.  Seven<br />
people died.  It turned out that there was E-Coli bacteria in the<br />
water.  The people responsible for supplying clean water<br />
neglected their duties; and because of the cuts there was no<br />
monitoring of their work.</p>
<p>There was a major inquiry, even the Premier of the province<br />
was called to testify and to justify his actions.</p>
<p>Medical care is a major problem on both sides of the border.<br />
Here in Canada we have Medicare.  It used to be the envy of the<br />
world.  No more.  There is a shortage of doctors.  The waiting<br />
time for surgeries is completely unacceptable.  You can wait<br />
forever for a diagnostic test such as an MRI.  You can<br />
facetiously say that the system treats the patient, or the<br />
patient dies of his own volition, whichever comes first!</p>
<p>Today, in the 21st century, the U.S. does not yet have a<br />
state-sponsored system of medical care.  The only Western country<br />
to find itself in this predicament.  There is a patchwork of<br />
HMO&#8217;s, Medicare, Medicaid, and a large part of the population (I<br />
believe 40%) finds itself without any kind of medical insurance.</p>
<p>And yet, despite their shortcomings, when good actions are<br />
weighted against their sins, our governments come out ahead.</p>
 <div class='series_toc'><h3>Article Series - Blame</h3><ol><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-i-an-overview/' title='Blame &#8211; I. An Overview'>Blame &#8211; I. An Overview</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ii-the-justice-system/' title='Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System'>Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iii-accountability/' title='Blame &#8211; III. Accountability'>Blame &#8211; III. Accountability</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iv-malicious-ambition/' title='Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition'>Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vi-the-jewish-people/' title='Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People'>Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vii-parents/' title='Blame &#8211; VII. Parents'>Blame &#8211; VII. Parents</a></li><li>Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments</li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ix-god/' title='Blame &#8211; IX. God'>Blame &#8211; IX. God</a></li></ol></div> <div class='series_links'><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vii-parents/' title='Blame &#8211; VII. Parents'>Previous in series</a> <a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ix-god/' title='Blame &#8211; IX. God'>Next in series</a></div>]]></content:encoded>
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		<description><![CDATA[When all else has failed, we turn to God.  We shouldn&#8217;t blame God for that&#8217;s blasphemy.  Nevertheless, we do it all the time.  I suspect that God understands and forgives.  Throughout the centuries two cries have resonated with different variations: &#8220;Where was God when this tragedy unfolded?&#8221; &#8220;If there was a God, would he permits [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When all else has failed, we turn to God.  We shouldn&#8217;t<br />
blame God for that&#8217;s blasphemy.  Nevertheless, we do it all the<br />
time.  I suspect that God understands and forgives.  Throughout<br />
the centuries two cries have resonated with different variations:<br />
&#8220;Where was God when this tragedy unfolded?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;If there was a God, would he permits such a thing to happen?&#8221;</p>
<p>After reading the Urantia Book, and giving careful<br />
consideration to these weighty questions, I have come to the<br />
following conclusion:  God has self-imposed constraints on<br />
Himself and all Higher Personalities.  This manifests itself in<br />
many ways.  Before I talk about that, let me remind my readers<br />
that they should formulate their own opinion on the matter.  The<br />
relationship between any one of us and God is strictly personal.<br />
Indeed, here, I share only some of my views.  Most elements of my<br />
relationship with God remain in eternal confidence between my<br />
Maker and myself. </p>
<p><span id="more-74"></span>       <strong>1. Free Will</strong></p>
<p>If there is one universal law, above all others, in the<br />
universe, it is free will.  It is respected by God and all the<br />
Higher Beings that assist him in His supernal work.  The reason<br />
is obvious:  Why create intelligent life on the worlds of time<br />
and space if it is not given the power to make choices?  Once<br />
intelligent life arises on a planet, the Higher Powers are no<br />
longer allowed to interfere.  The humans on our planet made their<br />
share of mistakes, and still do.  They learned and slowly<br />
advanced until they reached the civilized age we now enjoy.</p>
<p>Free will is so important, it would be unthinkable to ask<br />
the Creator to sometime do away with it and intervene in our<br />
affairs.</p>
<p>Does that mean that we are left completely on our own?  No.<br />
There are indirect means used to help us.  It&#8217;s complex and<br />
difficult to explain.  Let me attempt to give you two examples.</p>
<p>When a human (or group of humans) has a groundbreaking idea<br />
(say on the environment) they are influenced by Higher<br />
Personalities to pursue it, and they are given additional<br />
knowledge to help them along the way.</p>
<p>There is group on our system capital made out of 24<br />
counselors, they constitute the present advisory-control body of<br />
Urantia.  Their role is to supervise the affairs of our planet.<br />
Very briefly, they function by working through advanced humans to<br />
defuse a potentially dangerous situation.  I suspect that they<br />
played, more than once, a major role in avoiding a nuclear<br />
holocaust.</p>
<p>   <strong>  2. The Evolutionary Nature of the Material World</strong><strong><br />
</strong></p>
<p>Everything in the universe is evolving.  No object or life<br />
is static.  Our planet evolved from a totally uninhabitable<br />
sphere to the beautiful world we now live in.  In the process,<br />
the continents, the sea, the mountains, and the weather were in a<br />
constant state of flux.  This is still the case, albeit to a<br />
lesser extent.  I do not know whether the planet will ever<br />
stabilize.  Not surprisingly therefore we have earthquakes,<br />
volcano eruptions, tornadoes, and floods.  Human lives are lost,<br />
and great misery ensues.</p>
<p>After the tsunami of 2004, when thousands of lives were lost, again and again, we heard the cry that God was indifferent to our pain.  Nothing could be further from the truth.  God cannot suspend his natural laws.  Tragedies like that happen billions of times across the universe.  If God intervened everytime, he would make a mockery of his creation.  The Urantia Book tells me that there have been on occasion interventions in the universe.  However, I do not remember the Author of the paper giving any specific example.</p>
<p>On the biological level, life after it is implanted on a planet (it never arises spontaneously!) will evolve and explode into endless varieties of plants and animals.  Sooner or later, an intelligent animal will result.  As we all know, this is done through mutations.  Some of these mutations will result in undesirable life,  for example, some microorganisms become parasitic and kill countless people and animals.  The plague for example killed one third of Europe in the 13th century.  Nothing could be done at the time.  Today we can deal with many infectious diseases.  But it&#8217;s an ongoing battle.</p>
<p>    <strong>3. Self-Inflicted Wounds</strong></p>
<p><strong>  </strong>On a planetary level, we had two world wars in the 20th<br />
century.  Millions of lives were lost.  The suffering that ensued<br />
cannot be grasped by the human mind.  Was God responsible for<br />
that?  After all, this was the 20th century, we were supposed to<br />
be too advanced to engage in such foolish wars.  And yet we did.</p>
<p>On a national level, the budget of advanced countries amount<br />
to billions of dollars.  Yet the poor and the helpless are left<br />
behind.  How is it possible, in the 21st century, to have<br />
homeless people in rich nations such as the U.S. and Canada?  In<br />
Canada the weather is unforgiving; every winter people die on the<br />
streets of our major cities.  They freeze to death for want of a<br />
a warm bed. </p>
<p>On an individual level, many of us, eat too much, drink too<br />
much, smoke, do drugs, or all of the above.  It has been said<br />
that the body is the temple of the soul.  If so, this temple is<br />
desecrated everyday and everywhere.</p>
<p> But the news is not all bad.  We have made tremendous<br />
progress since the dawn of civilization.  We have advanced both<br />
on the technical and social levels.  As mentioned in a previous<br />
article, we are destined to advance even further.  </p>
 <div class='series_toc'><h3>Article Series - Blame</h3><ol><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-i-an-overview/' title='Blame &#8211; I. An Overview'>Blame &#8211; I. An Overview</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-ii-the-justice-system/' title='Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System'>Blame &#8211; II.  The Justice System</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iii-accountability/' title='Blame &#8211; III. Accountability'>Blame &#8211; III. Accountability</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-iv-malicious-ambition/' title='Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition'>Blame &#8211; IV. Malicious Ambition</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vi-the-jewish-people/' title='Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People'>Blame &#8211; VI. The Jewish People</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-vii-parents/' title='Blame &#8211; VII. Parents'>Blame &#8211; VII. Parents</a></li><li><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-viii-governments/' title='Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments'>Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments</a></li><li>Blame &#8211; IX. God</li></ol></div> <div class='series_links'><a href='http://equalpartners.ca/sociology/blame-viii-governments/' title='Blame &#8211; VIII. Governments'>Previous in series</a> </div>]]></content:encoded>
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